tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post3741446900918052288..comments2023-11-02T04:52:42.647-07:00Comments on Ramblings of the surprise dyke: Did we just break up?The Surprise Dykehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04433897324828977200noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-87881972449600731092009-01-30T17:10:00.000-08:002009-01-30T17:10:00.000-08:00Eb-Sweet, it's not just me. I'm glad you are in t...Eb-Sweet, it's not just me. I'm glad you are in the nervous, neurotic, over-processing boat with me.The Surprise Dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433897324828977200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-68622234825291786062009-01-29T13:13:00.000-08:002009-01-29T13:13:00.000-08:00Well, I totally would react the way you did and co...Well, I totally would react the way you did and conjure up major assumptions based on my own anxieties about how inadequate I am as a human being and a friend. Then, I would do just what you did, ask someone else if I'm a total loser. That person would then tell me every thing your friends her have told you. And, then I'd feel better but the whole thing would still really bother me.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes I just thrive on self torment. I can't add to the advice except to tell you, 'hey, me too!'ebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03420158428882932160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-39627644620123366692009-01-28T18:16:00.000-08:002009-01-28T18:16:00.000-08:00Dar-Thank you for your kind words and reassurance ...Dar-Thank you for your kind words and reassurance that it's not meThe Surprise Dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433897324828977200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-83807754167347745212009-01-28T17:00:00.000-08:002009-01-28T17:00:00.000-08:00My gawd, you don't know how many times I've done t...My gawd, you don't know how many times I've done the same thing, taken the story further than I should. You and she go way back right? Trust in that then. I know it's hard too, but you both are still the same people that shared all that you have ... She just has to come to that realization herself, and you have to let her. She's begun the process with, it's not you, it's me. X DarAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13932138589631417388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-87588419632840010282009-01-28T14:53:00.000-08:002009-01-28T14:53:00.000-08:00Kimber P-thanks for the suggestionKimber P-thanks for the suggestionThe Surprise Dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433897324828977200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-22629674365979360792009-01-28T14:52:00.001-08:002009-01-28T14:52:00.001-08:00Openworm-Welcome and thanks for posting your thoug...Openworm-Welcome and thanks for posting your thoughts on the situation :-)The Surprise Dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433897324828977200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-91195424454712888712009-01-28T14:52:00.000-08:002009-01-28T14:52:00.000-08:00Asphalt Cowboy-thanks for the kind words and sugge...Asphalt Cowboy-thanks for the kind words and suggestion!The Surprise Dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433897324828977200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-21767435089081820762009-01-28T14:51:00.000-08:002009-01-28T14:51:00.000-08:00Shea-Awww....warm fuzziesShea-Awww....warm fuzziesThe Surprise Dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433897324828977200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-82099541365662278292009-01-28T06:00:00.000-08:002009-01-28T06:00:00.000-08:00I think I would (as hard as it seems) take her wor...I think I would (as hard as it seems) take her word for it and give her the space she needs. Evidently she's got a major inner struggle going on and she's trying not to hurt you, but she knows it's unavoidable. <BR/><BR/>Stay true to yourself..and sometimes it isn't about you. Really.kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06735828474014945446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-91802729951031769942009-01-28T04:08:00.000-08:002009-01-28T04:08:00.000-08:00hey what up Ramblings of the surprise dyke!! i thi...hey what up Ramblings of the surprise dyke!! i think thats a funny message too.. i would take it that way if it was me.... maybe she likes u?? maybe shes just not ready to see you?? ummmm.. i dunno sounds weridopenwormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06869490248147935817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-29216990411060589482009-01-27T22:31:00.000-08:002009-01-27T22:31:00.000-08:00My thoughts are as such- It really may be her. If ...My thoughts are as such- <BR/><BR/>It really may be her. If you guys have been friends for forever and a day, she would be honest with you about what's going on. She's probably thinking you're going to freak out, so she was trying to shore up your confidence.<BR/><BR/>If she's having an issue with your sexuality, she's trying to assure you that it's HER problem, and that she needs time to work it out. You should give her a call this weekend to say hello, and treat her as you always would.Asphalt Cowboyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05067523782660167511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805921737626538861.post-81184117769776384212009-01-27T20:26:00.000-08:002009-01-27T20:26:00.000-08:00It is frighteningly F.R.E.A.K.Y. how much we are a...It is frighteningly F.R.E.A.K.Y. how much we are alike Jersay- so if you ask me......nope youre not naked to me- you're not an ass--- you're a good person, a great friend....you're the total package....it's just sometimes when friends from way back ago, well when they start their worlds reeling on account of something personal about us.....well, it sorta stings...and it makes us question every relationship. But don't be skerrid- just trust in the fact that there is someone out there guiding your foot steps- and you might stumble- but you're not going to fall, and if you do fall- you'll fall into the hands of LOVE.sheAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16775296966141176206noreply@blogger.com